When you start going back on the dating scene, the usual first worry is how to get dates. Then, you'll find date after date after another, and you worry how to get a second date. Successfully getting a second date can usually come from practice - the more dates you'll had, the more chances of improving. But if you're looking for a bit of a leg up, follow these five tips and be assured; the next time you get to take a lady out, there will surely be a second date.
1) Be on time. Don't be 30 minutes early. Don't be a half hour late. Be on time even if you have to drive around her block a few times or park around the corner while you wait. It's a small touch that will mean a lot more to her than you realize.
2) Contribute to the conversation. She really wants to learn about you. That isn't going to happen if you aren't revealing anything at all. One word answers and curt responses aren't going to cut it if you're really angling for a second date. You're going to have to converse, reveal, and contribute. It'll do you some good to break out of your shell once in a while.
3) Plan the date. Of course, if your date decides to do something else, you should adjust the plan and accommodate her choices. But don't go unprepared. Don't meet her without a specific plan, relying on her to make the decisions. The date should be spent on getting to know each other and hanging out, not on trying to find a good restaurant that doesn't need a reservation.
4) Give her your full attention. Sure, you can talk about yourself so she can decide if she wants to go out with you again. But don't talk about yourself all night long. Ask her to talk about herself, too. Find out what makes her tick, what you guys have in common. Women are usually reserved on the first date thinking all guys are insensitive and only like to talk about themselves. Pleasantly surprise her by showing what a great listener you are.
5) Ask for a second date. Don't wait for her to make the first move. Women do not usually initiate the second date, so it's up to you. If you're not comfortable asking her during the date, it's always okay to do it after. Give her a call within the week of after your first date. Some might even appreciate this more as this can give you both time to think, whether you're interested enough to see each other again.
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